Identity checks on every member
Government-issued ID, a live selfie matched against your photos, and phone verification. No exceptions, no shortcuts, no 'we'll do it later'. About one in nine bookings does not pass, and that is the point.
Safety
Trust is not a badge on a homepage. It is a process you can inspect.
Meeting a stranger requires courage. Our job is to make sure that courage is never the only thing protecting you. Here is exactly what we do, and what we expect from every member.
Your information stays yours
Answers and photos are visible only to the small internal team reviewing your booking. Nothing is published, indexed, sold or shared with advertisers. Ask us to delete it and we do.
Consent before every single introduction
We ask both people, separately, before anything is arranged. Neither of you sees the other's answer, so nobody is pressured into a yes. Declining is free and never held against you.
Public venues, chosen carefully
Well-lit cafés, hotel lounges and restaurants we have vetted ourselves. Never a private residence. Never a first meeting somewhere isolated. The table is reserved under our name.
Reporting that reaches a human
One message to your concierge starts an investigation the same day. We do not require you to relive details you would rather not. Serious reports lead to removal, not warnings.
No public profiles, ever
There is no directory, no search, no browsing. Nobody can find you here, screenshot you here, or discover that you are a member at all.
No random messaging
Members cannot contact each other through us. Contact details are exchanged only after a date, only with both people's consent, and only if both want it.
Women-first by design
Every rule above was written by asking one question first: would this feel safe to a woman meeting a stranger on a Thursday evening? If the answer was no, we redesigned it.
On the evening
What your concierge does while you are on your date.
You are not sent out alone with a reservation and good wishes.
- Confirms the venue and table with the restaurant the same morning.
- Sends both of you the address, timing and a description of where to sit.
- Stays reachable on Telegram from an hour before until you are home.
- Checks in with a single message if we have not heard from you by the next morning.
- Handles cancellations, delays and reschedules so neither of you has to.
- Never shares your live location, phone number or last name with your match.
Zero tolerance
Grounds for immediate removal.
We remove members permanently, without refund, for any of the following. We have done it before and will do it again without hesitation.
- Harassment, intimidation or unwanted contact of any kind.
- Dishonesty about marital status, age, or being legally free to date.
- Asking any member for money, investments or financial help.
- Pressure around physical intimacy, before, during or after a date.
- Sharing another member's photos, details or conversations.
- Repeated no-shows or last-minute cancellations without cause.
- Discriminatory conduct based on caste, religion, disability or appearance.
Ready when you are
Meet someone with the safety net already in place.
Verification, consent, vetted venues and a concierge who stays reachable — included for every member, free or premium.
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